i have started trying to change things recently as far as her taking advantage of me. I stopped leaving dinner out for her. I clean everything up and she can fend for herself.
I know i just really need to bite the bullet and do things on days when i would normally just do everything with the kids. This is going to happen anyway when she moves out.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15