I can totally empathize. I couldn't sit on something like that myself. I'd be weak and confront. I'd try anything I could to stop the meeting from happening. Of course I'd probably be wrong and have been wrong so many times in my life. In my own horrible messes I've decided to surrender my pride and tendency to try and solve everything myself. I finally let go and listened to the counselors and marriage coaches. That has had very positive results. As much as it pains me to admit, I don't know everything and I can't fix everything. Swallowing my pride won't kill me.
