Ok, now would be a good time to read Wonka's validation page. When she starts talking to about this stuff, validate.
Don't get to preachy about God etc. Validate her.
So am I validating the way she feels about me ending the marriage when I cheated? I have validated it in the past but I have heard this story 100+ times. I guess that's 100+ times I've had the opportunity to validate the way she feels about it. Yesterday I stated my feelings about it. I know she doesn't care about how I feel about it. At least at this time and space she doesn't.
Is it too late to validate the feelings she expressed this morning? If I were to send a text that said "thank you for sharing your feelings this morning. I know this last year has been really hard for you." am I pursuing?
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place
