Hi ILYNOT, I'm sorry to hear that. Even when we know it is a possibility, it still isn't nice to get the D papers. I noticed you are on the exact same timelines as me - BD 7.14 and my H filed last week.

What I would say is, your M isn't over yet and your R may not be over even if your M does end. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you choose to leave the door open a tiny bit.

My approach with the D and finances is just all business. I don't delay and I just set time aside and deal with things. I have no contact with H unless he gets in touch.

I hope things go smoothly for you my friend & take care..

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus