You're getting ready for your next girlfriend." I said "please don't make assumptions about how I feel or what I'm thinking."
Your answer was good. When she says things like this, you don't have to reply. Just look at her and then look away. Just let her think you are getting ready for the next one. She needs to worry about the fact she's putting you out on the market again. Don't assure her she's the only one.
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She then went into her old routine about how I ended our marriage when I was unfaithful...... I told her I didn't have to listen to her mouth anymore and I walked away.
Excellent!
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I returned a couple minutes later and told her "We can't change the past. We can effect today and the future with our choices. All of this is her choice.
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I asked her to type up something that would protect me if I were to decide to move out.
Who did you ask?
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It also included each of us seeing IC's a minimum of 1x week. WW agreed to see her IC 2x month.
Doesn't mean she'll actually go. What happens if she doesn't?
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I was trying to manipulate my WW to see her IC more frequently and elicit emotions from her.
Yep!
You are getting there. Keep learning and growing. You are going to be great!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
