MiL says WW doesn't tell her what's really going on. I don't even know if the MiL knows WW filed for D. I know MiL has told WW she needs to end her A and work on our M. I have told her my desire to R but it was before WW filed D. Do I reassure the MiL about my resolve to R? That I have not given up and that I do not want this D?
No... MIL is HER mother and in HER corner, and their relationship is between them ... Be polite but just let MIL know if she wants any information she will have to go through W to get it because you respect your Ws privacy and it's not your place to share the issues ... Your W will just blame you for turning everyone against her if you spill the beans
Worry about you and let your W spin, spew and pout... But DO NOT allow her to disrespect you verbally any longer... Remember you deserve better ... You are the prize
That's right I am the PRIZE! I have and will continue to not allow her to disrespect me verbally or any other way. Thank you so much for the encouragement.
My IC suggested if I say anything to the MiL to only say "I haven't given up on this M or on your daughter."
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place
