Here is the dilemma i have been facing with GAL during the past 6 months. I am at work all day then i get home and want to spend time with the kids, and they want to spend time with me. I have always been the one cooking dinner for them. If not the w feeds them whatever is easy for her. that actually drives me nuts. Then homework baths and bedtime for them shortly there after. My S4 is very attached to me and likes me to get him to sleep. By doing this thought i am just enabling and helping my W. two days a week she teaches a kids dance class at 5pm, then she goes to the gym after and gets home around 730. byt this time the kids are taken care of and getting ready for bed in about 45 minor so. Meanwhile she comes home and eats while she stares at her phone then goes and takes care of herself to get ready for bed. It really doesnt bother me what she does anymore, but it just leaves no time for me and GAl. I really like the time with my kids and i know they do as well.
then other evenings she will go to the gym in the evening also. I guess i need to know my kids will be fine without me once or twice a week and do things for me. It is just hard knowing the split custody is right around the corner.
any thoughts?
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
