is there any way i can basically go dark now? I know i will still have to communicate over some logistics with her and deal with kids, but i want to do it now. I have noticed that when i dont see her as much or communicate i feel better. when i do it just makes me want to fix things. I can not fix things!.

I am not sure her move date yet, but i would assume beginning of november. How can i get a head start now? I am going to read on going dark in the books and find in threads, but any experience out there?

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15