Quote: I'm saying we are doing the best we can with the cards that are dealt.
This is so true!
So many people have told me that it seems like I did everything I could to save the M. I got to the point where I let myself actually believe it. I stopped beating myself up over "woulda/coulda/shoulda" and started to believe that if it was meant to be, then something I tried would have helped things to work out between us!
Make sense? Don't get me worng...I would love closure, but I know now that I will survive without it because it is no longer about me, it is about him. I can't MAKE him face his problems, I can only face my own!
Sorry to sound so "preachy".....
PS...Azure...You know the sign on your back that tells guys you are "single"??!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)