Certainly some self reflection going on here. I agree with a lot of folks here, the feeling of no closure (they won't really talk with us) and the feeling of them being confused (they won't really talk with us) and the feeling of being confused (they won't really talk with us) and the feeling of being helpless (they won't really talk with us). So what is the underlying theme? Hmmm.
I'm not saying its their fault, its our fault or anyone elses. I'm saying we are doing the best we can with the cards that are dealt. It is up to us if we want to play poker or fold. Then it is how are we going to play? If they aren't responsive to our actions (cheseless tunnel), what are the options? What are you willing to live with? What aren't you willing to live with? I suspect you already know these things.
