So we had another couples counseling session last night. If y'all remember, in our previous session, the W wanted to go back to separation after stating she was done and going to file during the one before that. Our topic dealt with the separation issue and the counselor asked my W to define what she thought it was.
W didn't really have an answer. So the C suggested a time period (6 months) after which we will come together and test the waters. Also, the C stated that since we are still married and working on ourselves and us, then we should remain committed and not see other people. The W agreed (but it seemed reluctantly) to that. It just seemed that wasn't what she really wanted. Guess we will see.
So that's where we stand now. Separated and working on ourselves and us. More in a bit.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.