By the way Cadet, where was the threat where you told me to go? I cannot find it. Thanks
Sandi's thread is pinned to the top of the forum.
Read DR and all of the homework including all links.
Edit Some of those links will take you to more links, dont leave anything out, IMHO.
Plus I like the fisherman analogy, you need to learn how to fish, not beg someone to give you the fish. Then you will never go hungry. Same goes for relationship advice.
