Quote: I think this because H has said plenty o'times that he made a mistake, made poor choices, created a nightmare, lost things that really mattered to him, had a good life with me, etc., etc
You know what drives me crazy? When they say thing like that then contradict them with more words or with actions....UGH!!!
I don't think you were being harsh at all. I think we can find proof all over this board that the partner that is DBing is the one that comes out of this expereince with more insight into themselves! You go girl!
The article in O sounds interesting...I will have to check it out!
As far as "all in your head"...I often wonder if I miss H or the "idea" of him....when I sit and really think about the months preceding the bomb, they were not very happy ones!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)
