Ghost Busting Working on me Part 2

[ATPeace]

My guess is that your fear of being alone is in a personal level and not related to parenting, yes? If so - for the next month, my thoughts:

Do you know I really do not know yes I would say a personal level I guess my M has meant that I have always had someone else to make decisions with when I am on my own I will have to make the decisions myself no conferring I feel I can look after the kids just fine my eldest daughter and I are not very close so there is every possibility that she will not want to stay at my house often if at all ....my two boys do not really get on that well together they can but often they fight and then the baby toddler she is great fun to be arround

- go out to dinner alone twice. Take a book. Sit for at least 60 minutes at the table.
- go to the movies alone
- do something for you. A massage, a haircut, buy a new shirt. Whatever. Don't tell your W.
- buy some new aftershave/cologne/hairspray/whatever. Wear it any time you leave the house.
- lose 2 kilos. Healthily.
- buy a present for each child. Spend no more than 5 pounds each. Don't say why.
- go to 2 different meetup-type activities. Introduce uourself to everyone there (or at least 10 people). Shake their hand.
- arrange one extra meeting with someone you met at one of these groups. And I don't mean returning to the same meetup the next week/month.

How about those? Can you do that in a month? [/quote]

I see no reason why I cannot do all of the above

I wear my hair cut as a number one all over it was thinning and it looks much better short rather than fluffy

Took some legal advice with a Divorce L was give a free hour consultation and so long as I am going for shared custody then should be fine need to listen to meeting again recorded it and take some notes

Today it is dancing class ...never done the cha cha so will see he this goes