I really don't want to reconcile with her after what WW has done before and after WW left. I kept trying to understand why she did what she did. I keep going back to situations, analyzing them picking at them but it is very difficult.
I guess if you don't want to reconcile I am confused as to why you want to know about "why"
I posted to you on Sandi's thread about one possible reason.
How old is she? How old are you? Length of marriage? Children?
Let me also say that I do think it is a good idea to know why. I just want you take on it.