So, what would you do for someone who is beyond being nice?
There's a couple of ways you could go. One, is to plan to be gone the day she moves out (if you ever get a definite date). Let her get friends, or whoever, to help her. However, she may decide to take some things you don't want her to have. Usually, they take something of sentimental value .....and sometimes they just take things b/c they can.
Second, you could hang around to make sure nothing disappears. However, you will probably get roped into helping with the heavy things.
I read where one guy had one of his grown children (who was a stepson to the W) arrive when his W was there to get her things moved. I thought that was pretty good thinking. If the son had doubts, then dad would get a quick call.
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Do I go as dark as possible when she leaves?
Yes
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How do I interact until then?
Dark as possible.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
