I am the least to judge the snooping, as I am so guilty of it, it isn't funny. Truth is that you already know that this hurts us a lot more than it hurts them. So stay strong my friend.
This sounds to me like a great opportunity for a goal. Leaving your comfort zone and introducing yourself to someone new when you go out, and later to one person a day... This will help with self-esteem and self-confidence, I am rooting for you my brother as always.
God Bless
M: 34 W: 33 S: 7 S: 14 months BD: 6/2015 Separation: 6/2015 Back and Forth between Home and Moms
This will help with self-esteem and self-confidence, I am rooting for you my brother as always.