I too, am moving forward! My chat with T2 gave me new life! I'm no longer so depressed that I can't see happiness! I'm no longer going to be a doormat! I'm going to take control of my life!
If H chooses to join me someday, maybe I'll let him! LOL. In the meantime, I'm going to look out for me and my D.
Of course we will always remember, we will always feel some pain. It is normal and yes like sun says; we are human and we know we are alive; we have feelings!
I'm no longer trapped by what my H does, I'm on the road to detaching; once again. I don't think of it as loosing something, but gaining something; me!
