Thornton: You are right, She is definitely trying to relive some of her guilt and get validation from the OM and anyone who would sympathize with her.
Gnicks9: I have been pulling away, and I know she notices this. I stopped doing the major things for her, but I still do some small, thoughtful things for her. When I do these, It’s the only time I see any emotion from her. (i.e, our cat passed away, I bought a memorial plaque and had a memorial picture frame made).
She cried and thanked me for being so thoughtful and caring, I wanted to “not care” but she took the loss of the cat very hard and I did the Husband thing even though she doesn’t deserve to be treated like a W right now.
Me - 34 W - 34 T- 4 M- 2 No Kids BD - 4/18/15 ILYBNILWY EA/possible PA 06/20/15 Seperated 09/28/15
