Quote: My C seems to think the same thing, but said that answering my question with any kind of real answer is going to require that H ask himself the questions he's been doing all of this to avoid, so not to hold my breath... That it isn't "do I want to be married" but about why he is unhappy in himself, what are his values and what he is looking for by pursuing things that are bringing him and others plenty of pain.
Yes, that makes a lot of sense to me. It would explain him getting so emotional on the phone the other day. I think coming up with an answer for you will help him grow, and he will be grateful for that -- at some point! And definitely do not stop breathing while you're waiting!
Quote: Whatever.
You crack me up! What a great segueway.
Quote: It's that ruby slippers thing again. Yes, they have been on Hs feet this whole damn time. At least I have learned to see mine. That's something big that has come from this for me.
Ah, that so true and so poignant. That really nails a lot of what I'm feeling.
Oh, and thanks for explaining the computer thing. I'm glad H wasn't asking you to pay for something anew.
I hope you had a good weekend and were able to do some fun/interesting stuff. I still have to book my tix for coming out your way next month.
