Where do I go from here, pt. 3

[beckyb]

I've been thinking over the phone call with H yesterday (first one in a while) and thinking about what I did right and wrong.

Good: I didn't interrupt what I was doing to answer the phone. I waited until he texted me and then called him back.

Bad: I told him why I didn't answer the phone. I was finishing up a Pilates class.

Good: I didn't offer to fix his phone account online access issue. I explained what I thought was going on because I was having the same problem.

Bad: I asked him if he had done a "change of address" at the post office and told him he also really needs to change his contact information at the hospital.

Good: I didn't ask why he was at the hospital. When he told me why I said I was sorry but didn't dwell on it.

Good: I shared some information he needed regarding me preparing the house for sale. Signals that I am moving on.

Bad: I extended the conversation too long. He was the one that ended it. Ugh.