I understand the feeling. I went from posting 10 times a day to posting every 10 days... I just feel in a different place emotionally. Before, my sitch was burning me inside and it was all I could think and talk about (poor friends!). Now, I think about it a little every day, but I sense that I've gained back a lot of my life. and think about other stuff. It's normal, it's even a good sign of mental health. I keep coming though because I'm interested in the lives of brothers in arms like you and I hope you'll keep coming every now and then, as I will.
I thought about you a few times in the last few months, especially that you were working on a startup at the same time that you were going through D. I just don't know how you did it, especially knowing how much you hurt. I was just not able to work and only recently have I gotten back to speed, close to pre-D levels. I just want to say that I'm impressed by your will and energy.
It is weird... right? We go from being consumed with the situation to not wanting to be consumed. I think it is unique change within ourselves, probably associated with growth.
As for the startups.... How about a day job and two startups and part part time business.
A dream with no action will always remain a dream.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
