W,

Glad you are enjoying the weekend. Need time for you.

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I also said what I've said on this thread-- that if he walks away from M, I do want him to walk away knowing how much he is loved, how important H and M have been to me. I was careful to say this in a way that did not sound pleading or emotional, just compassionate.




I think many if not all the WA's have convinced themselves we do not "love" them or need them. No matter what happens, I do think it is important we convey this. I know I have not told W in a VERY long time, but I also feel she would not be receptive, but I have to say it for my peace of mind and as you said, let her know how I feel.

I expressed it a few times early in the crisis in letters. Is this a good idea? Or is it better said. And of course, do not expect a response, certainly, not a postive one.

Hang in. You are doing good.

Thanks