Painter, can I ask a question that's not about your sich? Luckily I don't have this problem for myself, but I read on the boards all the time how parents are using their kids as pawns in the D game: not letting them play sports because dad is the coach, sending them to grandma's instead of dad's when mom is out of town, things like that. In your professional experience, how do you stop things like this? Is there a way to get both parents focused on their kids instead of each other? In particular, I was reading WhyUs's sich, and it seems they are heading down a destructive court battle path. What's the alternative?
Luckily I don't have this problem for myself, but I read on the boards all the time how parents are using their kids as pawns in the D game: not letting them play sports because dad is the coach, sending them to grandma's instead of dad's when mom is out of town, things like that. In your professional experience, how do you stop things like this? Is there a way to get both parents focused on their kids instead of each other? In particular, I was reading WhyUs's sich, and it seems they are heading down a destructive court battle path. What's the alternative?