I don't feel like posting much anymore. Other people need this board. It is for healing, not for companionship.
I'm going to have to disagree with you Zues, in the most non-critical and non-judgmental manner I can muster. I find that for me, it is for companionship, things I can't say to any of my IRL friends, for example, my little rant on STBX not keeping his end of the S agreement. I never, ever complained about him to my friends in the 25 years we were M, and I'm not going to start now. But I feel like here's a place I can do that. Maybe there is some healing involved in that, too, but to me a large part of this board is just talking to people who understand what it's like to be me. Besides, if you don't check the boards, how can you continue to igore my giant flashing neon signs?
I find that for me, it is for companionship, things I can't say to any of my IRL friends, for example, my little rant on STBX not keeping his end of the S agreement. I never, ever complained about him to my friends in the 25 years we were M, and I'm not going to start now. But I feel like here's a place I can do that. Maybe there is some healing involved in that, too, but to me a large part of this board is just talking to people who understand what it's like to be me. Besides, if you don't check the boards, how can you continue to igore my giant flashing neon signs?
