I've had a busy week so far. This is a very good thing, even though some of the things I was busy with were not ideal. Working with my lawyer to try and get me some support and the stuff that was promised me back in August. Dealing with WH who picks and chooses what situations needs to be dealt with. Either he or his lawyer is just ignoring our proposals which means we will probably have to file a motion. I suspect that his attorney needs more money--and knowing H, he ain't paying. So I don't know what is going to happen. What I hope doesn't happen, is that our court date gets pushed off yet again. I want this OOP removed immediately and the fact that the court dates keep getting moved is just dragging it on. I have a pit in my stomach everytime the kids ask if I can drop something off for them. I know I can't go by the house, but when it comes to the school I am still fuzzy on when I am allowed to be there--since he works there. If I am there dropping something off that the kids left at my house on a day that they are with him and there are not special events going on, can he somehow twist it into me stalking him at his work place? I know it is crazy, but I am now paranoid about it now. So yesterday I had my son meet me across the street from the school to drop off his phone charger--just to be safe. I really want the order to be dropped so I don't have to be on edge like that.
I also am starting to carry balances on my credit cards. I got charged my first interest on one of the cards today and it really pisses me off. Because he owes me money. Because this balance never would have been carried if I didn't have to go buy things I already own, just because he is holding on to stuff that he already told me I could have, but refuses to arrange a time when I can get in there to get it. And when I ask, he either ignores or plays dumb.
But other than that, things are good. I am still loving my home, and the kids are starting to get used to it--I'm still hoping to get the schedule changed so I have longer stretches with them, and that some of the times when I don't have them is on weekends so I can at least do some socializing. I have some GAL things planned this week. Tonight, actually, I am going to a local comedy show where someone I know is performing. That should be fun--and I also have a meetup group dinner scheduled for next week. It is just really hard to find things to do during the week, when I don't have the kids. I am hopefully going to start working within the next couple of weeks. I took some of the training courses last week and I think I am starting to get my confidence back enough to jump in. But I just have to wait until I get the liability insurance--mailed the check yesterday.
Last edited by mustardseed; 10/07/1511:32 AM.
40s 2teens M14Y BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14 BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14 EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15 D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17
