She has not made the statement to remain friends. She has said things about being the best parents together.
As much as I know the going dark I originally thought was a tactic to get her back (and still hope to a degree) I do see it will be for me. I have been thinking the past few days that going through all this build up for her to leave after so long is worse than her just Leaving in the beginning would have been. I need the time to put her out of sight and out of mind to heal.
So is that the answer?


M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15