Found someone over in MLC forum that is getting her H back! You know what he told her? That it was the changes she made in her that made him take notice and want to come back! her name is lost_girl. She is not so lost anymore!
Since I have volunteered to do the success stories and I'm always searching out new ones coming up, I have found that it is when you detach from the drama of our H, be their friend and become independent, that makes them start looking at us as wonder women!
I do frown at "dating" as this can backfire on some. But the illusion of going out and doing, is ok, LOL.
Work on you, list what you want to change and work on it, show your H you can move forward, even if it is without him.
