people tell me to get a L involved and get my girls , other people tell me i would be pressuring her and pushing her off, and that she is in a shelter for a reason, because of my flaws. I dont know what to do anymore. I either get me a L and get my girls, or i just wait and give her space and not pressure her. I am so confused :((((( I wish she would just come back and accept we both made a mistake. Me for not being there emotionally and her for always stressing and pushing me to make more money.