However, I see your point that figuratively, we've already been divorced since this whole thing started.
If you want to look at it that way, then yes. But from all appearances the door is open.
Are you suggested that being divorced in any sense means that reconciliation is impossible? In my opinion, it's just a current status. I believe eh tat my relationship with my wife will continue until I'm ready to decide that I am ready to move on to a new one. Not sure when that will be or what will trigger it yet.
But, even if I decide to move on, that doesn't mean that if things work out in some way that we can't R in the future anyway - even if I had previously been closed off to it.
