Max. What you said about Ghost's W needing someone to stand beside her, not behind her. Someone to take over when she faltered?
That describes what I always needed and didn't get from my H. Thank you. I never looked at it that way, but your words were perfect. My H has always hid behind me, or his mom. Now he is thoroughly hiding behind his mom and she is very happy to keep him there. Wow, you just blew me away a bit with your words.
Sorry to hijack Ghost's thread.
I find that interesting. I can see in my R that I stood in front and not beside. I was always trying to protect too much. Never let her be herself. Wanted to care so much where she never could do for herself. Crazy.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
