That's a hard question otw. I have been GAL a lot just to get away and burning myself out. Started slowing down this week, and to be honest, I don't think H even notices. He is truly in his own world. I guess just keep reminding yourself that she is just a room mate or neighbor and hold no expectations. Sometimes when I feel like I am going to "mess up" I think about how it will sound when I post it here and I want to sound strong, so I choose the option that I will make me feel proud to post. Its like playing a mind game with myself but it works.
