Quote: Which leads me to your next discussion topic.......do we want them back?? I ask myself that all the time and I think I would want the H that I originally fell in love with, not the one I am dealing with mow.
This definitely becomes a question after a while. Why does DBing seem to walk so many fine lines? At first you can't live without them and have to seem as though you can. Through working on yourself and your PMA and making progress, you then can get frustrated with your spouse's slow progress. Someone once noted here on the BB that at first you're so far behind them, but you're in so much pain you work really hard to get out of it. Then at some point you pass them, or at least get glimmers of what that might be like. Then you are again walking a thin line, trying not to detach so much that you don't care, because it's so painful to try to be friends with them and watch their stumbling efforts and listen to them continuing to be hurtful. I love my H and I want him to CATCH THE HELL UP! Or I'm going to get too far away from him.
Can you tell I'm a bit melancholy tonight? Maybe this is just my mood. Hope I'm not hijacking, Wonder!
