Quote: They had already detached from the marriage emotionally, the only thing left is to make it official.
This is accurate. I can see she detached emotionally & physically a long time ago. So I can understand the next step is to make it official, if there is nothing left.
I cannot begin to understand the pain and emotion you are going through with H. I would have to agree with your assesment, he was not behaving the way you were used to and it would be scary, for everyone.
I saw none of that. She simply detached and walked away from the situation with very little emotion. I have seen a litle (very) in C. But none outside. She made a decision and acted on it.
Quote: I do sense you're doing a lot of making everything your W is doing about you and it sounds to me like it's more about her.
I understand intellectually, as you do about your H, this is all about her. But emotionally I keep wallowing in the impact it has had on me and the children. I recognize this; I need to figure how to get past it, SOON.
I hope no matter what happens, you and your H are able to find peace. I suspect you will; you are strong. Thanks as always for helping me see.
