D4 said that she wanted me and her mom together. She loves both of us a lot and seems to wonder why is it that she can only see one of us at a time. She practically never mentions OM. I kind of wonder what places he occupies in their lives. I find it strange that he goes unmentioned.
Mozza, FWIW- When D4 was 3 she would occasionally babble about OW - but not very often. D7 never spoke about her, unless responding to a direct question that I had asked. Maybe its just how kids are, but I tend to think we somehow give off vibes that we're not fans of the affair partner - and they are quick to pick up on that.
Lately D4 likes to call out all of our names and finish with some commentary, all while sporting a huge smile. "Mommy, Daddy, D7 and me! And we're a fam-i-ly". My heart contracts a little every time.
