otw, I see you are in VA. My friend is going through a D right now in VA. She was told by her lawyer that to prove an A is very hard, it requires hard proof, such as an actual photo or video of a sexual act. Restaurant receipts, even hotel receipts, are not hard proof. Her lawyer advised her against pursuing that avenue. For what its worth, I am not a lawyer but I was surprised when she told me this. You should talk to a L to be sure.
