My wife left the house

[Painter]

can someone advise me on how to reach out to her to please allow me to see my kids? I dont want to beg , i dont want to threaten her either. Any takers ? I want to buy this Disney on ice that is coming to houston this month and i would love to take my daughter there , but how when i cant even see them.

Don't create a pressure situation here for yourself, her or the children by aiming for events. This will lead to disappointment and conflict. Even if you got them, W would very likely be upset because from her pov, here she is living in a shelter,and you're being Disney dad! Google the term if you haven't heard it.

Since she is scared ill take them away because according to her i still have the right too. She says that until all this clears away then i would be able to see them. I guess until she serves me? but that can take months

How and when did this come up? Can you explain it in more detail? You can't afford to be guessing here, you need to know what she means by 'all this'.

I think the suggestion for a first request was good - maybe give her 3 options for times, and have this first visit last 3-5 hours.

Make sure this is properly documented and keep your cool - remember that everything you write her (and even conversations, depending on recording laws in your state) may be read by a judge.