Ghost. My W wants to be friends, even though she filed for D. It is not healthy for us. We will be used when convenient, and disregarded other times. Believe me, I have seen both sides of this just in the last 2 days. Pull back, detach and protect yourself.
It's the only option we have other than follow them around like a puppy and hope they throw us an occasional scrap.
Now, to follow my own advice!
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....