But I also agree with Squiggy's Thread. In his thread, he took a strong stance with his W about the OM. He basically said, I am not open to anything but discussing his S while W was involved with OM. Then he began to file D paperwork. It is a very strong stance, but she did drop the OM and get back with him.
If you go Abe's route be very composed, they way he described. And rehearse the awful things you will hear so that you aren't shocked. Prepare for any situation.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015