Ghost, I really like reading your posts because it reminds me of what not to do. Because I am tempted every day to have R talks, do nice things for my H, etc. Every day is a struggle, and when I see your posts it reminds me exactly of why not to do these things. And I mean this in the kindest of ways. You are doing better Ghost, it is very slow coming, but you are inching your way forward. I am looking forward to the day you make a giant leap forward.

I know you can do it Ghost!