Losers: Wayward Wife & LRT (9)

[Abe31]

You need to know what you want. Do you want to R? If so, get your head on straight prior to the conversation.

You see your wife flip-flopping. She's spending time with you and your assumption is she's still spending time with OM.

Again, ask her what she wants to discuss with you prior to the meeting. Like a meeting agenda. That way, you know what the starting point is. You'll then have to be fluid and see where the conversation goes.

Be in the moment.
Take extra time to process what she says.
Respond with your ultimate goal in mind.
Let her come to you.