What a Wonder-Filled World...

[holdingon]

Wonder,
Now don't go thinking I'm a jekyl and hyde, but I do want to caution you about an attorney.

If you HAD an attorney, I would tell your H to contact your attorney.

If you feel certain H is going to do the D, I would get a very aggressive attorney.

If H is bluffing, I would not get an attorney, yet. They seem determined to make sure you end up D... since that is what they are getting paid for.

So, more stones in your road... lol.

As far as alien behavior, I do not agree that they are thinking clearly. My H COMPLETELY changed. There was a time he literally could not write his name. He almost lost his job, he has removed himself for his children, home, extended family, the morals he has lived with for 44 years, everything. All for his "happiness" and I have never heard more sadness in his voice in my life. He was a different person, and he did scare me. At one point, I wrote in my journal if I ended up dead, who I thought would have done it... How's that?

And now, it seems my H is back... which hurts even more, cause he isn't back with me, but I see the wonderful person he used to be.

Well, it's Monday, and gloomy... and gloomy and blue in my head, too. Sorry. It IS wonderful to have friends here on the bb... but I so wish all of us would find happiness, joy and peace and Michelle could shut this thing down.