He's still with the ow. No of course not. I'm worth more then the way he's treating me. I don't deserve this. I can't even detach when he's not living here...
I just need to know how to tell him without being a b.... I'm a very nice person and this is the reason why I ways get screwed at the end. I already have the kids with 100% of the time... he has no clue how to take care of them and the ow can't even take care of herself let alone my 2 and her 1. Ugh. Pray for me cause tonight I will talk to him...

can I say this and please correct me if it's wrong.
Hey p. I want to talk to you about our living situation. I have asked you not to text ow while here and so far you have been respecting my boundaries. I think for the sake of the kids and me that you move out completely but are welcome here when we are home. I think you coming and going as you please gives the kids wrong ideas about us. As they are way to young to understand what's happening. I think this is the best thing for us.
something like that??

Last edited by overcom; 10/06/15 04:52 PM.

Me 34 H 33
Married 2006
S5 D2
BD Jan 2015 EA/PA
He moved out 2/2/2015
Came back 5/2015
Filed divorce papers 8/21/2015