Is he still in the A? If so he doesn't want your marriage no matter where he is. Do you want to be just a convenience? Can you detach while he is living there? Can you speak to your L about temporary support options?
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming