Just a question to the vets. Can I say to her that I get to decide when its over or do I just keep to myself? If to myself I really need to have someone to talk to.
No, you don't need to say it to her. Most women that have any spunk at all, would see that remark as a challenge, and she'd be bent on just showing you who decides when it's over. If you need to talk to someone....then talk to us.
To me, telling yourself you get to decide when it's over, means when it's over for you. If she's a WAW or WW, then for her the M is already over. She doesn't get to decide for you, just like you don't get to decide for her.
Please give us some information about your W, the MR, some history......just anything.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
