Got to figure out how to drag my feet and slow this process down. Give God as much time to work as possible.
God doesn't need your help. He is big enough to handle things in His own way and in His own time. (I know, I try to give God suggestions all the time. )
I don't know that I agree that the LBS should drag their feet to slow the process down. B/c when you drag your feet, you are resisting her. All it really accomplishes is in her getting more angry and maybe sticking it to you more....b/c she's mad. I do agree that she needs to take care of the paperwork, etc. But if you are focused on what to do to slow things down, it takes away your attention on what you need to do to change the dynamics of the relationship.
Who knows, it may take a D to open her eyes.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
He is big enough to handle things in His own way and in His own time. (I know, I try to give God 
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