Hi Wonder ~
It is great when friends notice what we think we see happening...it is so validating!
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so many positives, and that it's clear that I am more "me" and that my life is aligning with my values.


I agree wholeheartedly with this statement! I lost so much of myself with H and SHE is back and I like her!!! I think H might like her too, depsite himself!! LOL!!!

Sounds like you are moving back into detachment mode and I know how good that feels!!
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The rope is on the ground, and I am having serious doubts about whether I will choose to pick it back up again in the future.



Keep up the great worrka nd the wonderful PMA, Wonder!!! (((((WONDER)))))

Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)