Thanks you Py. As always you help me feel a lot better about myself and situation.
STBX has emailed back and said thanks he appreciated it and it will not stop him moving on with the solicitor. (Made me want to slap him when I read that!)
Said he will contact me re DS costs, as and when. What an a$$! Initially said he wanted to talk, I refrained from calling him, only a few mo this ago, I took all opportunities to contact, now I just don't want to.
Last few days a step back as I am replaying all that he has with OW in my mind. Someone he can share the little things that has happened in the day with. Felt a bit down with that!
However, still not spending the time dwelling as I would of done.
Py, your analogy about the river is pretty accurate, we are so used to thinking about our spouses, it has become natural, a habit.
Py, your words means so much to me, love and kisses to you.
S x
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15
