I guess a little more info is necessary. My L stated that it will affect if there was something. That is if we go down the road of ha I got status hash things out. As of right now we are trying to do this on our own. I consulted a L because I did not want my emotions making a bad decision.
I am waiting for wife to respond to the amounts I have offered to pay and then determine if we will still be able to work through this ourselves. If she pushes for a fight then I will probably try to discover if and A is in place.
I do still have the desire to make sure she is ok though also. Tough place to be in.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15