You are correct nothing can fix it one one night. But one night can surely start the ball rolling. Why not have one more night. Be open. Be adaptable aka malleable.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015